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Do Weddings Exist Today Just So We Can Document Them On Social Media?

By Jean Hannah Edelstein

May 15, 2013

These days, it's practically part of the liturgy—the moment before the wedding ceremony when the celebrant asks assembled guests to put away cameras and phones. Every time I witness the sliding of smartphones and cameras back into pockets and wedding-only beaded clutch bags, I can't help but think the whole situation has become a chicken-and-egg question: Do we document weddings because ...

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When My Marriage Ended, So Did Many Of My Friendships

By Laurel Hermanson

May 14, 2013

Do rough times show you who your real friends are? Laurel Hermanson says it's not that simple. I sometimes think my daughter’s third birthday party was the best day of her life. She wanted a pirate theme, so we decorated the backyard and ordered a custom cake in the shape of a parrot. Since it was July, I bought an inflatable pool with a slide and a fountain. She was surrounded by kids a...

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What I Learned About Friendship After Going Through A Divorce

By James Bernard Frost

May 07, 2013

Sometimes, the best way to be a friend is just to listen. There is a picture taken of all of us in the backyard of my house the summer before it happened: my wife and our two kids; Lilith, her husband, and her little scientist; Monique, her husband, and her future goth; and Ophelia, and her two towheads. In the picture, my son has his fists full of chocolate birthday cake, my daughter has a ga...

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Learn To Ask For What You Need

By Charlie Glickman

May 06, 2013

I’ve been leaning into some edges lately and learning how to ask people for help. Specifically, asking people I don’t know well for things has been a difficult thing for me. It’s been coming up since I’ve been on tour for The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure because I’ve asked a few people I didn’t know all that well if I could stay at their places when I...

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You Can Still Love Your Friends And Not Agree With Their Choices

By Jenn Leyva

May 05, 2013

Jenn Leyva is not a fan of marriage, but that doesn't mean she can't support her friend who's getting married this summer. A close friend of mine is getting married this summer. I’ve imagined myself attending this lavish affair for years, but I’m missing all of it. I’ll be in Korea teaching English for a year. And honestly, I’m a little bit grateful. I love my friend, b...

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My Husband And I Sleep In Separate Beds

By Jennifer Adams

April 22, 2013

I’m going to lay my cards on the table straight away. My husband and I sleep in separate rooms and have done so since he moved into my house eight years ago. If I was going to describe our ability to share a bed in contemporary parlance, I would have to say we are an "epic fail." When Fraser moved into my house, we had only been seeing each other for five months. But the lease on his ap...

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Are Women Delaying Marriage Because They're Being Too Picky?

By Hugo Schwyzer

April 21, 2013

A new study reports on the rising average age of first marriage in the United States. While 20-something men delay for reasons that are primarily financial, women are described as overly picky and fearful. It may have been easy to miss in the recent wall-to-wall coverage of the Supreme Court and gay marriage, but a new study out this month heralds more “bad” news for the state of h...

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Why Are Women So Obsessed With Marriage?

By Carrie Laski

April 18, 2013

With the amount of wedding propaganda shoved down our throats and into our brains by popular culture, how can women not be obsessed with it, asks Carrie Laski. “That’s it. I’m deactivating my Facebook!” I’ve heard this declaration several times over the past year from in-real-life friends who are sick of seeing engagement notices from their online-only friends. I...

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As Much As I Tried To Avoid It, My Marriage Looked Just Like My Parents'

By Laurel Hermanson

April 09, 2013

Do we subconsciously seek partners who can fill the roles in our lives our parents once held? Before he walked me down the aisle on my wedding day, my father tried to say something, but what came out was a choked hiccup-sob. If I hadn’t had a glass of champagne and a Valium, I might have cried, too. Instead, I steadied myself on his arm. My father, my hero, my first love, delivering me t...

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The Friday Five

By Role/Reboot Staff

March 29, 2013

This week's roundup of our favorites from across the interwebs to help you make sense of men and women. 1. ‘Roe’ Didn’t Incite The Culture Wars, And Neither Would A Supreme Court Ruling For Marriage Equality by Jill Filipovic of The Nation says the Supreme Court Justices should ask themselves: Does history look kindly upon those who, when presented with important challenges, ...

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