Role Reboot

Does Oral Sex Need a Role Reboot?

This piece was originally published on The Good Men Project. Republished with permission. To write this article on cunnilingus, I created a mini-survey to get some perspectives from Good Men Project readers, Twitter followers, Facebook friends and a bunch of total strangers. I threw “box job”—as Dan Savage once described the act—in the title simply because, […]

Splitting the Check

The bill arrives. My date reaches for his wallet. “Let’s split it,” I say, reaching for mine. “Nope, it’s on me,” he replies, waving me off. “Are you sure?” “Yep,” he says, and I don’t push further. As unlikely as it may seem, I actually prefer to split the check. The first date is a […]