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The Roots Of The Modern Gender Gap

By Hugo Schwyzer

February 07, 2012

Once again, the “gender gap” is in the news. Only a little more than a month into 2012, women voters are showing a clear preference for more liberal political candidates. President Obama’s support among women of all ethnic backgrounds remains stronger than it does among men. Even among Republicans, women are much more likely than men to support the most moderate candidate left in the GOP primary, Mitt Romney, over his more conservative rivals.

But perhaps we need to ask an equally important question: Why do so many men increasingly lean Republican? The answer lies in anti-feminist backlash, but it also lies in male insecurity.

The discrepancy in how women and men vote has a long history in American politics, dating back to the first presidential elections after the ratification of the 19th amendment in 1920. From the beginning, that gap was less associated with party affiliation than with support for women’s rights. In 1928, women supported Republican Herbert Hoover by a wider margin than did men. The GOP in that era was more progressive on women’s rights and less beholden to Catholic social conservatives than the Democrats. Similarly, female voters threw their support to Dwight Eisenhower in 1952 and 1956; Ike was a staunch supporter of Planned Parenthood.

It wasn’t until 1980, when Christian conservatives succeeded in taking over the GOP platform, that women emerged as a key Democratic party voting block. While women have been more likely than men to vote Democratic in every election since, even within the Republican party they have shown a tendency to support more moderate candidates than have GOP men. As polling from Florida showed just days ago, Newt Gingrich’s inability to defeat Mitt Romney is inextricably bound up with his abysmally low support among women.

So why do women tend to be more liberal? Why are men—especially white men—moving to the right across the political landscape? As women draw closer to economic parity with men, shouldn’t the gender gap be closing? One answer lies in men’s and women’s differing sense of what modern men’s role can and should be.

The Republican party has made much of the rhetoric of family values over the past 30 years. That tends to irk those who resent the politicization of kinship ties. The conservative message is clear: People ought to rely on their families, rather than the state, for support. For those with a sentimental and exaggerated view of what a family can provide, this makes good and comforting sense. 

Conservative Republican appeals to men are filled with nostalgia for an era when women could not afford to be as choosy as they seem to be today. The historian-turned-gadfly-candidate Newt Gingrich rarely misses an opportunity to point out that, since the 1960s, liberals have carefully substituted the state for the husband in the lives of American women. Strong public institutions (as well as contraception and access to abortion) reduced women’s dependency on men. As women gained greater autonomy, they no longer felt as compelled to settle for unhappy or abusive marriages. In the traditionalist imagination, this liberation led to abortion, divorce, and promiscuity.  

The end result of women’s emancipation has been, as conservatives like Charles Murray and Mary Eberstadt have argued, the psychological dislocation of American men. Raised to be “good providers,” young men cannot possibly compete with a “Leviathan” state that provides far more to women and children. The much-exaggerated contemporary masculinity crisis is the inevitable consequence of robbing men of their natural and primary source of self-esteem, the ability to provide for their families. 

It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that more men than women vote Republican in this country for this very reason. Whether they are able to articulate it or not, I suspect a great many men sense that the weaker the state, the more dependent women become upon them. The fewer publicly-provided alternatives to getting married exist, the more likely women are to put up with unhappy marriages, and the less likely they are to have any heft with which to demand that men make necessary changes. The stronger the social safety net, the more options women have for raising children without men; those women who do choose to raise children with men will do so by choice rather than necessity. And when you have a choice, you can begin to demand a degree of mutuality and accountability from a partner that you could not otherwise demand. No wonder so many angry men vote Republican, and sing the praises of the “free enterprise” system. No wonder so many more women vote Democratic, or failing that, for the least reactionary Republican available.

The reality is, of course, that strong public institutions liberate people to make life choices based more on wants than necessity. People get married later because where strong public institutions flourish, marriage becomes less about survival and more about compatibility and companionship. Where marriage becomes one choice among many, where even monogamy is one among several competing options for relationship, people are freer than ever to make decisions rooted in desire.

That so many men vote for candidates who want women to have fewer choices surely reflects men’s resentment of women’s liberation. More than that, however, it reflects men’s own constrained sense of self-worth. A society where women aren’t dependent upon us is a society where we can be loved for who we are and not merely what we can provide. We are more than our capacity to earn and to protect. But as the enduring gender gap indicates, too few men believe it.

Hugo Schwyzer has taught history and gender studies at Pasadena City College since 1993, where he developed the college's first courses on Men and Masculinity and Beauty and Body Image. A writer and speaker as well as a professor, Hugo lives with his wife, daughter, and six chinchillas in Los Angeles. Hugo blogs at his eponymous website and co-authored the recent autobiography of supermodel Carré Otis, Beauty, Disrupted.

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  • Conrad Cook
    04/27/12 at 03:11 PM #

    As a liberal and former encamper at an Occupy group… This is all true. But I find it remarkable that honest liberals, like Mr. Schwyzer, do not consider it a real problem.

    When I was growing up, the “Welfare Queen” theory was a hot topic. An utterly classist, misogynistic rationalization for withdrawing much-needed financial support from unwed mothers.

    But in fact as an adult I’ve talked to Those People while waiting to apply for food stamps. It really is a lifestyle decision. Girls in the projects grow up, very often, intending to be professional, state-financed mothers, just as some good girls from Middle America grow up wanting to be housewives.

    The difference is that a man making minimum wage simply cannot compete with the Uncle Sam as a provider. And in terms of holding down a long-term relationship, that does indeed matter. Further, Uncle Sam bids up the costs of apartments and food…

    I would ask Mr. Schwyzer to reconsider. If the goal is “happiness,” what about the children who are often not truly wanted or loved, but conceived as a means to a government income? Who do not know their fathers, or do not live with them?

    The male complaint, the male desire for children, is not trivial and is not necessarily rooted in misogyny or a desire to control procreation. To desire to have a family is a wholesome desire, and it is one that men below the poverty line seldom realize.

    The implicit presumption that the romantic relationships of poor people are unhappy because men are abusive is just too simplistic. Poor people have miserable romantic relationships because of the stresses placed on them by poverty.

    I told people at the Occupy group, “We live in a system that pries families apart like a big crowbar.” I saw again and again that that was the real reason people were there. America destroys families. Never one time was I quoted in this by the news reporters, who were good, nice people.

    The reporters believed that families fall apart because of moral failure — because the parents lack “family values.” That is in effect what Mr. Schwyzer has written, that men lack families, lack the capacity to be fathers, because they lack good feminist values.

    Human emotionality is not evolved to maintain the family in a welfare state. It is evolved to survive a hard struggle against a hostile environment. In such circumstance it is not a priority that couples be happy. It is a priority that the children be taken care of.

    When the system creates enormous stresses on long-term relationships, and then pays mothers who never marry or who divorce their husbands, women and men respond the way they might in a little kingdom or tribe. If the King were to do this, we might often find couples fighting, women leaving to join the King’s harem, and men either drifting, work made useless by their “psychological displacement,” or going berserk and making an attempt on the King’s life.

    We see these emotional patterns, in men and women. It does not reflect the success of feminism, nor the inherent lack of either traditional or feminist family values. It reflects the fact that we have created an economic system that pries families apart like a big crowbar.

  • Marie
    02/11/12 at 12:22 AM #

    Congratulations on writing such an insightful article. However, I have read that white males are more likely to vote Republican (or “libertarian”) than men of color. Also, aren’t millenial white men more likely to vote Democratic than their baby boomer fathers and WWII grandfathers?

    It’s sad to think that Betty Ford, Margaret Chase Smith and of course, Eisenhower would not fit into today’s GOP. Even Barry Goldwater would have some struggles. The Republican Party’s goal in this century is to preserve the rich white male status quo. It’s the party of the 1%.

  • Sam
    02/07/12 at 10:40 PM #

    Hugo,

    “We are more than our capacity to earn and to protect. But as the enduring gender gap indicates, too few men believe it.”

    yeah. But, again and again, we’ve been over it. Men cling to a world in which they’re needed because they cannot fathom a world in which they’re wanted. Because they do expierence rejection so much more often as you have written yourself. Why? I suppose that’s a matter of gradual incompatibilities in female and male sexualities. I wonder if there’s a cultural lever to address that problem.

  • Eoghan
    02/07/12 at 08:14 PM #

    Well, since so-called “liberated” women are shallow parasites and their concept of “love” generally ends with six-pack abs and a Pittface (for the younger ones) and a wallet (for the older ones), I can completely see where these conservative men are coming from. Now, if women actually did love men for “who they are”, you might have a point. But they don’t.

  • Lori Day
    02/07/12 at 12:01 PM #

    Extremely insightful article. If only all women—and everyone—would vote in their own best interests, gender-related and financial!

  • Frustrated Feminist
    02/07/12 at 11:10 AM #

    What I don’t understand is why more smart, liberated men don’t start to see that tying women to unhappy marriages by economic limitations, or continuing to place the burden of supporting women and children on men’s shoulders is not good for any of us – men AND women. Why can’t these Republican men see that it is not doing THEM any good to bind their egos so tightly to the oppression of others?

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