I am in full support of consenting adults enjoying whatever kind of sex satisfies and brings them closer to their partner. To each their own. I just want to change the way we talk about it. Alright. Truth be told, I am fan of the language. Yes, I have a great love for language as a whole. […]
Dear Dana is a bi-weekly advice column for humans who engage in romantic relationships. Please send your dilemmas, issues, conundrums, assumptions, conflicts, anxieties, worriments, obstacles, complications, predicaments, queries, questions, and any other synonyms for “problems” to deardana@rolereboot.org. Dear Dana, I’m in a four-year long relationship with my girlfriend and we recently just moved in together. A […]
I have no desire to date right now because I’m afraid I’ll be murdered. A few weeks ago, I found myself writing this: A woman murdered in my mother’s hometown. A woman murdered in my hometown. If I have children, women will be murdered. If I don’t have children, women will be murdered. I’m talking […]
Dear Dana is a bi-weekly advice column for humans who engage in romantic relationships. Please send your dilemmas, issues, conundrums, assumptions, conflicts, anxieties, worriments, obstacles, complications, predicaments, queries, questions, and any other synonyms for “problems” to deardana@rolereboot.org. Dear Dana, My husband and I fight about money all of the time. When we first got together he […]
Birth control, I love you. It’s not you, it’s me. Dear Birth Control, I just wanted to take the time to say thanks for sticking by my side all these years. You empowered me to take charge of my own story through the most turbulent chapters of my life. You’re the reason I’m the most […]
If you want to know what bisexuality is like, ask a bisexual person. But if you want to know whether you’re bisexual, don’t ask me or your therapist or Women’s Health. Ask yourself. September is among the most bisexual months, containing as it does two days of great importance to our community: Bisexual Visibility Day […]
It might be happening behind closed doors, but advocates of sex services for people with disabilities say that doesn’t mean we should ignore it. When you think about sex workers, what do you picture? Young women paying for college by stripping in a club? Crack addicts working street corners under the watchful eye of their […]
Orgasms beget orgasms. I take a lot of Zoloft — 200 mg, if that sort of thing interests you.Two hundred milligrams of Zoloft is the highest dose of Zoloft that doctors will give a person — even a person like me in eating disorder recovery and with OCD so ferocious I will vacuum myself out of a […]
