We cannot control or choose the sexuality of others. To do so is to commit a deep violence against another human being. I am continually amazed at the negativity people carry about their sexuality and at how much they will disconnect and defect from this part of themselves, as if it is outside of us. […]
There is no “normal” amount of sex to have and no “normal” type of sex. There is a common sexual experience that few people talk about and yet is more pervasive than most people realize. Many adults are sexually inexperienced and this causes a slew of issues as they get further into adulthood, deeper into […]
We want to be with one another and have a sense of solidarity with those who share our experience. I’ve spent many years in women’s communities and I, myself, create spaces for women to come and do their sexual growth work with one another. These spaces are incredibly important for our own well-being and evolution. […]
