Role Reboot

Why Do You Care Who Wears The Pants In My Relationship?

I’ve seen people try to openly emasculate my boyfriend, implying that he can’t be a proper man with a headstrong girlfriend like me.  Want to hear a few stories about pants-wearing in relationships? Here’s just a few from my recent experience… Yesterday morning, Medellín, Colombia. Migs and I are at a stoplight and, like always, a street […]

Why You Should Talk Politics On Your First Date

This originally appeared on The Daily Life. Republished here with permission. If a man starts out believing that cooking, cleaning, and childcare is “women’s work,” then there’s little chance he will change his mind during the relationship. Remember that classic scene in When Harry Met Sally…where Meg Ryan’s Sally quizzes Billy Crystal’s Harry about his gender […]