Role Reboot

Why My Son Doesn’t Need A Father

Yes, every child needs a family, but the composition of the family is not what’s relevant. As co-mamas to a 7-year-old boy named Bobby, my partner Valerie and I are subject to a lot of negative judgments about our parenting. People who will never meet us declare us to be unfit parents simply because she […]

Stop Asking Gay Couples This Question

Yeah, but which one’s the girl? Have you ever been asked that about a gay couple, because I have. Usually in a hushed tone like the person knew what they were asking was offensive, but somehow couldn’t not ask. The conversation usually goes something like this: Which one is the girl? Um…Neither. You get they are both […]