“If you can’t dance to some shitty house song…just because a woman is in the room, you need to examine what that says about you, not call for that woman’s removal.” Lesbian sex isn’t really sex, though. It’s not sex unless there’s a penis. What do you mean ‘don’t touch me there’? I’m gay. Trust me, […]
This movie about a bunch of gay men with average problems helped a queer teenage girl imagine a place for herself in the world, and that makes it a little bit extraordinary. In my home dimension, the one where The Broken Hearts Club is rightfully and universally revered as a gay classic, every gay bar […]
Too many people aren’t receiving the education and health care they deserve. Back in 2014, I wrote an op-ed endorsing pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) treatment for HIV prevention. PrEP is delivered as a daily pill that prevents HIV infection by blocking an enzyme used by cells infected with HIV to replicate the virus. For residents of the U.S. who have […]
There is nothing inherently “vulnerable” or “passive” about having sex as a woman. Tom Ford thinks he’s knows what it’s like to be a woman—or rather to have sex like a woman. Because, ya know, he’s had butt sex and that tells him all he needs to know. In the December issue of swaggy men’s-mag […]
Unwanted sexual contact has become way too common in the gay community. On a Sunday afternoon in Washington, D.C., I decided to hang out with the crew at our usual gay club hangout. I was having a great time drinking and doing a little two step, when nature called. I left my friends and went to […]
Yeah, but which one’s the girl? Have you ever been asked that about a gay couple, because I have. Usually in a hushed tone like the person knew what they were asking was offensive, but somehow couldn’t not ask. The conversation usually goes something like this: Which one is the girl? Um…Neither. You get they are both […]
