It’s 2016, and while the law of the land may be that gay men and women can marry, we are not equal. We do not feel safe. We aren’t safe, not always, and now, not even in our sanctuaries. I’m angry. I’m angry that someone took the lives for 49 men and women. I’m angry […]
The journey to parenthood doesn’t always follow the path you thought it would. I write narratives in my head a lot about myself. I figure out what I want and I go for it. I live by these narratives, following the paths I’ve laid out in them. I like them to be set. I think […]
My father passed away three years ago, but remembering his secrets and the ones I shared with him keep me connected to him. Father’s Day is this Sunday, and I’ve been thinking about my dad a lot. He passed away a little over three years ago, so this is my family’s fourth Father’s Day without him. My […]
Friend dates are more fun than real dates. I won’t get to make out, but I won’t spend 98% of the night wishing I was dead. Being single isn’t half as bad as many of my single friends make it out to be. Sure, I’d love to come home after a long day and curl […]
A new app allows people to share messages anonymously within their circle of friends—but it can get ugly fast. I’m visiting my best friend in Atlanta and things are just like they were in high school—we gab about friends, what people are doing, whom they are doing, and how they are doing it. It’s a little […]
Dick pics are just the beginning. Dana Norris wrote an awesome piece about the things she learned about online dating. It is accurate and wonderful. But for gay men, some of the advice needs the RuPaul Fabulous Makeover. So, let’s see what we can add and change from her article to make it work for […]
