Role Reboot

Dear Dana: I Love My Husband, But I’m Not In Love With Him. Should I Leave Him?

Dear Dana is a bi-weekly advice column for humans who engage in romantic relationships. Please send your dilemmas, issues, conundrums, assumptions, conflicts, anxieties, worriments, obstacles, complications, predicaments, queries, questions, and any other synonyms for “problems” to deardana@rolereboot.org. Dear Dana: My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We’ve been through a lot together—illness, financial […]

We Live 9,349 Miles Apart, But We’re Killing It In The Bedroom

You said I was crazy to sign up for an extreme long-distance relationship. You were wrong. I live in Orlando. He lives in Australia. At any given moment, there are 9,349 miles (plus, one hell of an expensive airplane ticket) separating me from my boyfriend. In fact, our time zones are so far apart that […]

4 Reasons Why Monogamy Is So Hard

It’s clear that infidelity is incredibly prevalent and has been throughout recorded history. As a culture, we love monogamy. It’s the ultimate romantic promise. The only sanctioned way we are allowed to conduct ourselves in relationships. We even sign legal contracts with the government saying as much (though one wonders why such a proclamation is […]

I Mistook My Asexuality For Sexual Purity

Not once did it occur to me that my aversion to sex was anything other than godliness. I’m not normally a person who watches TED talks. I want to be, but the idea of committing myself to something educational when I could be watching videos of dogs is a hard sell. When a Facebook friend […]