No one is telling you not to flirt. We’re telling you not to be an oblivious, egocentric asshole while flirting. Dear Henry, I’ll admit that when I saw your name flicker across today’s headlines, I had to look up who you were. Please don’t be offended – I’ve never been into Superman. So because I […]
Looking back, most of the messages I received about sex and my masculinity’s role in sex were quite horrifying. Some of the most important lessons I’ve learned in life came through sports. They taught me hard work, commitment, and teamwork. They also taught me some of my most foundational lessons about masculinity and sex. Not […]
Reaching boys and helping to mend their broken world views—or making sure they’re never broken to begin with—can no longer be a niche of feminism. In the few days since the shootings at Isla Vista, a national conversation about men, masculinity, and sex has emerged. It’s not the first time we’ve had such a conversation; […]
