Women will talk to each other about absolutely raw physical experiences, such as giving birth, so why is masturbation usually off the table? I’m a healthy, sexual woman. I’m not ashamed to discuss my sex life with people I’m comfortable with. In fact, talking about sex with my close female friends was something of a […]
Having a bigger body while getting laid and getting pleasure from it seems to be too much for the poor dudebros of the world. Two nights ago, I checked my filtered mail on Facebook. Lo and behold, this was in my inbox: First: I have no idea who this person is (a person of the male gender) […]
In her new book about girls and sex, Peggy Orenstein says it’s time to change our definition of virginity. Cruising though the aisles of the local bookstore, you may take note of a book by Peggy Orenstein titled Girls & Sex—two topics that we certainly like to talk about, though not necessarily together. But the tendency […]
We’re not imagining ourselves in loving relationships, dialogue and all, as we get ourselves off. And we’re definitely not lighting scented candles and applying body lotion to create a sensuous environment. “I think I masturbate more when I’m stressed.” “You masturbate?” This conversation I had with a male friend embodies the surprise a lot of people express when […]
